Teamwork

I was just looking back at blog posts from 2010 and I was surprised how I had forgotten the animosity that existed between Jax and Em when she was a baby.  Well, from Jax toward Em.  He really didn’t like her for a long time; I mean, she was cool as long as she wasn’t in his way, but it wasn’t until she started giving back that he started to enjoy her company.  I came across a post that talked about the first time they found a common ground–when she was three months old, under his old playmat, then hers.

And look at them now.  Buddies.

Come on, Em.  Let’s do this as a teamwork.”

And just as my mommy heart starts going pitter-pat and I am reveling in my mama bear glory, he kicks her to the curb.

Just kidding.  Get out of here.

I guess old habits can be hard to break.

One Of The Guys

I can’t believe I haven’t posted these pictures yet.  My baby girl is so enamored with her big brother and Daddy that she wants to join in on all the reindeer games that used to make up their boys’ club activities.  A few weeks ago it snowed and, of course, Jax jumped up to join Daddy outside on the deck with his little red shovel.    What I didn’t expect was that Em would hustle over to the shoe bin, pull out her snow boots and bring them to me, insisting, “Boots!  Boots!”  Looks like Daddy and Jax have a new member in their club, leaving me on the outside looking in.

And it looks like we need another little red shovel.

The blue one is too big.

At first I thought I had hit the jackpot with all three of them busy working in the fresh air.  Time alone!  Hooray!  Then I surprised myself by putting on my own boots and heading outside, camera in hand, because I didn’t want to miss out on all the family fun.

Or the sweet cheeks.

I’m sure by mid-winter I’ll be over the sweetness of it all and will hang by the fire while my family works to de-snow our deck.  But there’s no stopping Miss Em when it comes to Jax and trying to be just like him, whether it be November or February.  It’ll never get old.

She calls him “Jaxie” and she not only looks up to him, she looks out for him.  If she has a cookie, Jaxie needs one, too.  If she sits in her chair to watch TV, Jaxie needs to sit there, too.  I’m not sure if she worships him, but she sure wants to be just like him.

Soon this will all come with a healthy dose of rivalry, but for now, it’s just plain love.

Quite a team.

Happiness Is…{blessings}

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!  On this most grateful of days, I am certainly celebrating the joy that giving thanks brings to me, and I am sure to count my blessings, which are many.

I’m thankful for my two babies and their new-found friendship.  Their desire to seek each other out, make each other happy, show off for each other, and love each other is overwhelmingly beautiful.  I’m grateful for each of them but also for both of them together as a pair, because most often I find myself aware of how blessed I am when I see them together.

I tried to share the idea of counting our blessings with Jax and Em yesterday, and although when I asked Jax what he loved about his life he enumerated every single car and truck he owned, he also said that he was happy for the snow, the sun, and the trees, and I was thankful that we are able to live in a place that is surrounded by nature for our little outdoorsman.  He was reminded of snow thanks to the 8″ or so that were dropped on us overnight, so we took the opportunity inside to make create something that reminded us how much we have to be be thankful for.

I saw this craft here at Paper Crafts for Children, and it is so simple it doesn’t even require step-by-step instructions.  First, cut out a tree trunk with some branches.  Second, trace your child(ren)’s hand on multi-colored paper to make fall leaves.

Then the kids and I talked about what we were grateful for and I wrote them on the hands and put the tree on green grass so our gratitude was a bit more grounded, so to speak.  The kids didn’t really understand what I meant by “thankful”, but we did talk about what they love and were able to come up with our family, nature, toys, books, and our home.  Luckily Jax was okay with me writing “toys” and not listing out every type of construction vehicle he owns; that was a close one.  Em was grateful for her bed because she was ready for a nap, but I thought that fit in the “home” category, so I think I covered all their intentions.

So much to be thankful for.  We’re celebrating with family today, I have a zillion more photoshoots this weekend, and we’re taking the kids to the New England Aquarium tomorrow as well.  Should be a fun-filled celebration, to be sure!

What about you?  How are you celebrating Thanksgiving?  Please come share your posts from this past week, and we can all reflect on what we’re thankful for together!

The Happiness Is… blog hop is simply a place to come, link up a post (not your homepage!) that made you happy recently (anything but a giveaway or review) and share it with the rest of us!  Photos, recipes, crafts, stories, moments, and anecdotes are all welcome!  Come peruse other amazing posts and meet fantastic new people in the blogosphere!  The only rule is to please grab my button (right sidebar) and link back to me in some way, otherwise you won’t be able to link up.  That way more people will come and learn about this uplifting way to promote your blog!

Also, I will link back to my favorite post of the week on Twitter and Facebook every Monday after the link closes.  It could be you!  And don’t forget to peruse past favorite links in my Happiness Is Blog Hop tab above.  If you’re featured, your link will be up there forever!  Last week’s favorite was “The Mistaken Generosity of the Tooth Fairy” over at Taking It On.  The post was so funny and made me think of all the foibles in my parenting future!  Be sure to head over there, and to pop all around, and comment on each other’s posts!  It’s no fun if no one is hopping!

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!  Enjoy your families, food, and football!



Happiness Is…{baby love}

People said we were crazy to have them so close together.

18 months and 2 days apart.

Constantly competing for attention.

But they always have each other’s back.

They love each other.  And it makes me melt to see it grow.  Happiness Is seeing my babies love on each other.

Love love love love love.

So, now that my gushing is over, what’s new with you?  What’s been making your heart flutter and sing this past week?  I’m very excited to hear!

Last week I had two favorite posts; they were so different I couldn’t choose!  Congratulations to Meredith at I Am A Mother Seeking and Amanda at Small Home Big Start for being featured as my favorite posts from last week.  And in case you didn’t notice, I have a new featured button in my sidebar; if you’ve been featured recently or in the past, feel free to grab one!

I choose a new favorite every week and it could be you!  You’ll be featured on Facebook, Twitter, and here!  But you can’t if you don’t link up, so come on!  Join the party!

The Happiness Is… blog hop is simply a place to come, link up a post (not your homepage!) that made you happy recently (anything but a giveaway or review) and share it with the rest of us!  Photos, recipes, crafts, stories, moments, and anecdotes are all welcome!  Come peruse other amazing posts and meet fantastic new people in the blogosphere!  The only rule is to please grab my button (right sidebar) and link back to me in some way, otherwise you won’t be able to link up.  That way more people will come and learn about this uplifting way to promote your blog!


Round One

Scene: Mom gives kids first popsicles of the year.  Actually, it is the first popsicle of Em’s life!  Let’s see how the action unfolds.

E:  Man, I really like this yellow popsicle.  It’s so refreshing!

E:  It’s so delicious!  I am so happy!

E: Or am I?…

E:  Look at how smug and happy he is with his red popsicle.  He’s oblivious to my pain.  How come I never get anything red?  Just because he can talk and I can’t?  That’s discrimination!  That’s it.

  

 E:  Give me that popsicle.

J:  What, this one?

J:  How ’bout….. no.

E:  Give it to me!

J:  What is that annoying sound I hear?  Oh, well, nothing important.  Mmmm, this popsicle is good!

E: I am going to say it nicely one last time.  Give me some of that popsicle or ELSE.

J:  Or else what?

E:  Or else I will flush that stupid Blankie of yours down the toilet so fast it’ll make your head spin!  Now give me some of that popsicle or so help me God…

Silence as J contemplates her offer.  They have a staring contest.

J looks away first.  E tries to hide her smile as she knows she has won.

J:  Fine.  You can have the last bite.  But only because it’s covered in my spit and because I was done with it anyway.

He leaves in a huff, his pride wounded.  He tosses his popsicle stick at her as he walks away.  Em is left to finish her yellow popsicle in peace.

E:  Man, after the red one, this yellow one tastes gross.  No wonder he always wants the red ones!

She walks off to find her brother.

Round One goes to E.  End Scene.

 



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